Showing posts with label quotes. Show all posts
Showing posts with label quotes. Show all posts

Sunday, February 28, 2021

Occasionally words must serve to veil the facts

 “Occasionally words must serve to veil the facts. But let this happen in such a way that no one become aware of it; or, if it should be noticed, excuses must be at hand to be produced immediately.” (Machiavelli, c.1513). 

Machiavelli's instructions to diplomat Raffaello Girolami, as quoted in Arthur Koestler's Darkness At Noon (1941)

Occasionally words must serve to veil the facts



Monday, July 15, 2019

One kind word can warm three winter months | Japanese proverb?

Melt the snow with the warmth of words of kindness   


What Does It Mean? 


One kind word can warm three winter months means that well-chosen words of sympathy or encouragement can help a person overcome difficulties or obstacles, even those causing substantial problems.

It might be true ... but where does it come from?


Is It Really A japanese Proverb?


It is popularly known in the English-speaking world as a Japanese proverb. But is it really a Japanese saying? 

Actually, "One kind word can warm three winter months" is not a Japanese saying at all, there is no saying like it in Japanese, and no Japanese person would have heard of it or anything similar to it in Japanese. 

Instead, it is based on a Chinese saying. 

The actual Chinese saying is:
 

好言一句三冬暖,恶语伤人六月寒


iáng yán yijù sandong nuan, èyu shangrén liùyuè hán 

which can be translated as: 

"A kind word warms for three winter months, while vile talk wounds like bitter cold in June."

This sounds more rhythmic and symmetrical in the Chinese which reads more like:

kind words - winter - warm -- harsh words - summer - cold


The Origins


The Chinese saying comes from the compilation text  增廣賢文 (Zengguan xianwen) which can be translated generally as "Enlarged Writings of Worthies" being an expanded version of earlier texts such as 昔時賢文 (Xishi xianwen) or "Writings of worthies from ancient times". 

There were a number of different versions of this text which was designed to be used as part of primary or elementary education to instill a solid moral grounding for those Chinese children who had access to education. 

This was done by including aphorisms, proverbs, popular sayings and famous quotations, mostly focusing on daily life, social relationships, and patterns of decent behaviour.

It was written in symmetrical, rhymed pairs of sentences to be easier for children (and adults) to grasp and remember, which indicates the poetic nature of the original Chinese saying. 

After many hundred years of use it became particularly popular in the late Qing period in the 1800s. 


Extended Meaning


The meaning of "A kind word warms for three winter months, while vile talk wounds like bitter cold in June" extends beyond words themselves to focus on attitudes from which words emerge. 

At its most basic it means that a good word can make people warm like a fire in the cold winter, while a bad word can hurt people and make them cold like snowing in summer. 

Beyond this the saying also calls for a positive and good-hearted attitude which is geared towards giving positive hints or encouragement so that others can get the power to overcome difficulties and keep making progress. 

Along with this, it also points to how a negative mentality and attitude, and the words which can emerge from this, can make others suffer from this negativity and become unmotivated and discouraged, retreat, and languish. 


English equivalents


Some biblical equivalents include the focus on the positive possibilities of words by Solomon in Proverbs 25:11 - "A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in settings of silver". 

This sentiment is continued in Proverbs 15:23 - "A man takes joy in a fitting reply, and how good is a timely word!"

A focus on attitude as a prelude to words can be seen in Luke 6:45 - "A good man brings good things out of the good stored up in his heart, and an evil man brings evil things out of the evil stored up in his heart. For the mouth speaks what the heart is full of."


Other relevant quotes include:


"Kind words are a creative force, a power that concurs in the building up of all that is good, and energy that showers blessings upon the world." - Lawrence G. Lovasik

"Our words should be purrs instead of hisses."- Kathrine Palmer Peterson

"Words are potent weapons for all causes, good or bad."- Manly Hall

"Words are the most powerful thing in the universe... Words are containers. They contain faith, or fear, and they produce after their kind."- Charles Capps

Thursday, September 13, 2012

Si vis pacem, para bellum

Si vis pacem, para bellum
(if wish peace, prepare war)

Literally: "when you hope for peace prepare for war"
(or more generally - when you hope for peace be ready for war)

Peace though Strength
appears to have been derived from the published quote -

Igitur qui desiderat pacem, praeparet bellum

Literally: "Then, anyone who longs/wishes for peace should ready war plans" and it is taken from "Epitoma rei militari" (also known as "De Rei Militari","Of the art of war") by Publius Flavius Vegetius, a writer of the 4th century a.D.
The idea also possibly exists in Plato amongst others (e.g. He who makes war his object instead of peace, or who pursues war except for the sake of peace, is not a true statesman. Plato Laws).

Also some variations on the theme:

Si vis bellum para pacem

If you want war, prepare for peace.

Applied to Bonaparte as an example of planning for a war by making other nations think you are wanting peace.

Could also mean that if you prepare for peace you are inviting another party to start a war with you.

Si vis pacem para pacem

If you want peace, prepare for peace.

If nations really want peace it is difficult to see this while they build up their armaments (e.g. Andrew Carnegie 1907 National Arbitration and Peace Congress).

Si vis pacem fac bellum

If you want peace, make war.

The only way to liberate the world from military domination can in the extreme case be through war, an extension of the original: Si vis pacem, fac bellum (e.g. Richard Grelling 1918 on what is needed to make the world safe for democracy (comment on Woodrow Wilson speech before congress)).

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Monday, August 27, 2012

Definition of Wealth - Buckminster Fuller


"Wealth is our organised capability to cope effectively with the environment to sustain our healthy regeneration and decreasing both the physical and metaphysical restrictions of the forward days of our lives." from Buckminster Fuller - Operating manual for Spaceship Earth



Tuesday, November 23, 2010

Quotes & Sayings

Just a collection of quotes.

Listen to your heart or your heart might stop talking to you.




Happiness can be attained either when existence accords with our desires, or when our desires are in harmony with existence. True, the second alternative is difficult; but the first is impossible.
Sangharakshita (A Survey of Buddhism)

The greatest discovery of my generation is that a human being can alter his life by altering his attitudes of mind....William James

The universe (which others call the Library) - Jorge Luis Borges http://jubal.westnet.com/hyperdiscordia/library_of_babel.html

We do not so much need the help of our friends as the confidence of their help in need. ~ Epicurus

To know you have enough is to be rich. ~ Tao Te Ching

The feminine is more powerful than the masculine, the soft is more powerful than the hard, the water is more powerful than the rock. -Osho

 Constant dripping wears away the stone (or water wears away the stone by constant dripping not by smashing it)

Chinese Version:  
Dripping water pierces a stone; a saw made of rope cuts through wood.
?(shui)?(di)?(shí)?(chuan),?(shéng)?(jù)?(mù)?(duàn)?


In music you are taught to play correctly, but sometimes the incorrect is correct - From Israeli movie "The Secrets".

As often as I have been amongst men, I have returned less a man (Seneca  quoted by Thomas à Kempis, Imitation, Book I, c. 20. perhaps advocating the monastic life or a vow of silence). 

“We grow too soon old and too late smart” Dutch Proverb
( Old too soon, smart too late ... via Mike Tyson).

God created man and, finding him not sufficiently alone, gave him a companion to make him feel his solitude more keenly. Paul Valery

A good traveller doesn't know his destination; the best ... his origin

The mind of each man is a savage garden : Anne Rice - The Vampire Chronicles

How can one know the color of spring unless one visits the garden? (Farewell my Concubine)

Death's an old joke, but each individual encounters it anew. Ivan Turgenev

"Genius demonstrates its autonomy not by ignoring all rules, but by deriving the rules from itself." (Kneller, Jane (2003). Guyer, Paul. ed. Kant's Critique of the Power of Judgement: Critical Essays. Rowman and Littlefield. ISBN 0742514196)

Paul Valéry, "Everything simple is false. Everything which is complex is unusable." (Notre destin et les lettres, 1937)  - Bonini's paradox 

Herbert Stein's Law: ''If something cannot go on forever, it will stop.''

"political language is designed to make lies sound truthful and to give an appearance of solidity to pure wind" : George Orwell

"The state is the coldest of all cold monsters. Coldly it lies, too; and this lie creeps from its mouth: `I, the state, am the people.'... Everything about it is false; it bites with stolen teeth. "
by:
Source:
from "Thus Spake Zarathustra"

Men make their own history, but they do not make it just as they please; they do not make it under circumstances chosen by themselves, but under circumstances directly encountered, given and transmitted from the past. The tradition of all the dead generations weighs like a nightmare on the brain of the living. Marx (The 18th Brumaire of Louis Bonaparte)

Tolstoy - "The two most powerful warriors are patience and time."

"A man puts plans in place and fate displaces them." - Russian saying.

“Once the limits of the possible have been overturned, it is difficult to bring them back,” Clausewitz

'Not to know what happened before you were born is to remain forever a child' - Cicero

There is no such thing as society. There is a living tapestry of men and women and people and the beauty of that tapestry and the quality of our lives will depend upon how much each of us is prepared to take responsibility for ourselves and each of us, by our own efforts, is prepared to turn round and help those less fortunate. Margaret Thatcher
http://www.city-journal.org/2011/21_4_snd-big-society.html

“I disagree with what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it.”   Evelyn Beatrice Hall (writing about Voltaire), incorrectly attributed to Voltaire, and less frequently, Jefferson, the attribution gets mixed up over time because Miss Beatrice Hall wrote a biography on Voltaire.

"Not the strongest, nor the smartest - those most responsive to change survive." --Charles Darwin

"More life may trickle out of men through thought than through a gaping wound." --Thomas Hardy

"Being impatient to win ensures a loss" - Louis XIV 

"When the hyena is the judge, the goat has no rights" African proverb

"Depending on your social height,
The law will see your crime as black—or else as white"   Jean de La Fontaine, 1621-1695 http://danieldendy.blogspot.com.au/2013/03/the-animals-stricken-with-plague-la.html

“He's mad that trusts in the tameness of a wolf, a horse's health, a boy's love, or a whore's oath.” King Lear, Act 3, Scene 6, Page 2.

“Watch your thoughts for they become words.
Watch your words for they become actions.
Watch your actions for they become habits.
Watch your habits for they become your character.
And watch your character for it becomes your destiny.
What we think, we become." Margaret Thatcher channeling her father channeling the Buddha

You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream. - C. S. Lewis

"There’s no art
To find the mind’s construction in the face." (DUNCAN - Macbeth)
(There’s no way to read a man’s mind by looking at his face. I trusted Cawdor completely).

"Excuse me can you tell me where there is a vending machine where I can get some water?" "Here's some more water Mr X".

"If we want things to stay as they are, things will have to change." (Giuseppe Tomasi di Lampedusa, The Leopard, (Tancredi the nephew character)

Everyone knows that an eager young bride can accomplish in 7 months what it takes an older bride to accomplish in 9 - heinlein

The second baby takes 9 months, but the first one can come anytime.

"a cat may look at a king" proverb

“Give sorrow words; the grief that does not speak knits up the o-er wrought heart and bids it break.” William Shakespeare, Macbeth

Cemeteries are full of people who had the right of way (unattributed)

“You can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality.” - Ayn Rand.

"Learn the rules like a pro so you can break them like an artists" Attributed to Pablo Picasso but no credible source for this

"Art is what you can get away with" Andy Warhol?
 
"It is dangerous to be right on matters where the government is wrong" - Voltaire
(the original quote in French has no word which translates directly or indirectly to “government.” A better translation of Voltaire’s statement: It is dangerous to be right on matters where accredited men are wrong.")